So when we react strongly to something, we can ask ourselves, “Am I reacting to what’s happening in this moment, or am I instinctively slipping into patterns from my past?” When we are stressed, we are more likely to revert to a less functional style of parenting, especially when our default is based in an insecure style of attachment.
— Read on momentousinstitute.org/blog/how-our-own-attachment-style-impacts-our-relationships
Are you a perfectionist? Do think that people just have an innate ability to do certain things? This video really open my eyes to see that failure is the only true way to success. Instead of practicing to do something perfect, practice by doing experimentation instead. Only through failure are we able to learn.
Thanks for sharing this link Stan.
My son really wanted some chocolate milk…